While You Wait

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waitingI think our family was the most frequent visitor to the doctor this summer. Summer! Can you believe it? That is when we are supposed to be germ-free. Between the weekly baby checkups, the numerous illnesses that floated through our home, and other various appointments, we spent too many hours just waiting – without electonics.

A good day can turn nasty quickly when you’re at the doctor with a sick baby, and your toddler has a meltdown, and the other is asking, “How much longer until it’s our turn?” Luckily, my kids don’t mind waiting too much. There are certain waiting games that they look forward to playing when they know we have to go for appointments. When I remember to stay calm and play a few games, I find our visits go so much smoother. Here are their three favorites at this current time.

Simon Says

My 2-year-old loves this game. It’s the perfect game and can work for whatever your child may need at that moment.

  • If they are antsy, “Simon Says, jump up and down.”
  • If they are working on their colors, “Simon says, run and touch something red.”
  • If they are cranky, “Simon says, show me how you shake your sillies out.”
  • If they are into counting, “Simon says, do four jumping jacks.”
  • If you have a small space and cannot move around, you can still play, “Simon says touch your nose.”

I Spy

Another game they love and you can play sitting in a waiting room is, I Spy! We were at the dentist and the kids found “I Spy Tubes.” We decided to try making these at home which turned into an entertaining morning activity in itself. The kids searched the house to find ten small items to fit into a dry, empty water bottle (crayon, di, penny, small figurines, etc.). After placing the items in their bottles, they used their fingers and small spoons to fill the rest with dry rice, leaving an inch or two empty at the top for shaking purposes. That’s it! They love to shake up the bottle and find all 10 hidden objects in their I Spy bottle. These are easy to pack or keep in the car, and the kids love them because they made them themselves. (I had to ductape the cap on to ensure no unwanted spills). If we forget the tubes, we can still play I Spy with objects we can see.

Guess My Number

My preschooler is very into big numbers and he loves to guess my number. You can start as easy as you want with little ones, such as a number between 1-5 or 1-10. I love when my son picks the number, and I can almost see the wheels turning as he is figuring out higher than/less than. As needed, increase the gap and add more difficult clues. You can play with older kids too, using clues like, “My number is an odd number” or, “The sum of the digits in my number is 9.”

Not so Creative, but Necessary

I always keep a small tote bag filled with interactive books, nonperishable snacks, and small games like Spot It Jr. and Go Fish. I have found we have a lot fewer meltdowns and more family fun pulling out some of these games during our “wait” times.

What activities help your kids wait? Please comment below!

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becky
Becky is taking a break from her teaching career (which she loved) to stay at home as a mom to three kids, 4 years old, 2 years old and a newborn. She is kept busy cooking with the kids, going to mommy and me classes, volunteering at her son's preschool, planning activities and playing with the kids. Becky grew up in San Diego and moved to NYC when she was 25. She fell in love with life in the city and a guy named Joe. She and Joe married in 2009 and moved to Stamford a month before their first born. Becky is ready to get back into running and is a frequent traveler with the kids going back to San Diego and also Michigan to visit family. She loves meeting new friends, staying active and is always up for fun, new plans with the kids. Fill in the blank: If I had 10 minutes to myself, I would: Jump on the treadmill. Describe your perfect day: Husband home from work and we are all poolside, kids are happy, having dinner on the deck with friends. Favorite thing to do in your spare time: Probably shop online

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